As the New Year begins, it’s natural to feel the pull to set goals, make resolutions, and envision a better life. But even when we do a vision board, set goals, make resolutions, set intentions, or do a ceremony, we often don’t achieve the results we desire.
The truth is, real transformation doesn’t start with what’s outside of us—it starts within. It’s not just about our good intentions, creative vision boards, or even willpower or effort. Lasting change happens when we align our actions with our deepest yearnings–what we desire deep inside– and when we uncover what’s truly holding us back. |
Here are three key insights to help you rethink how to approach transformation this year:
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Here’s the takeaway:
When you focus inward—on your emotions, yearnings, and the patterns holding you back—you unlock the ability to create the external changes you’ve been longing for.
Transformation isn’t about trying harder. It’s about tuning into yourself and aligning your life with what truly matters.
How to begin your transformation, right now:
Transformation doesn’t have to wait—you can start today. Here’s how: in every interaction, notice your most foundational yearnings and get curious about them. For instance, if three strong yearnings are: to be seen, to matter, and to make a difference…ask yourself these questions:
- Do I exist for them? Do they fully see me?
- Does this person exist for me? Do I see them accurately, in the here and now?
- What impact do I want them to have on me? What impact do I want to have on them?
By consciously engaging in this way, you’ll align your yearnings and relationships with the life you’re ready to create.
The transformation you’re seeking this year is closer than you think. It’s not something you need to chase—it’s already within you, waiting to be uncovered.
Let’s make this the Year of Intentional Transformative Engagement from the Inside Out.
Embrace your yearnings, listen to your emotions, and take the steps toward becoming your most fulfilled self.
LiveWright and Transform,
Drs. Judith and Bob Wright